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They Replied "lol" — Now What?

You said something you thought was engaging and all you got back was "lol". The dreaded conversation-killer.

They sent

“lol”

Don't say this

“haha yeah so anyway what are you doing this weekend? any plans? want to hang out?”

Immediately trying to restart after a dead-end. Asking 3 questions after getting "lol" = desperate.

Say this instead
Power Move

“(leave it on read)”

If "lol" is all they give, silence is your best response. Protect your energy.

Topic Shift

“alright new topic. [something interesting]”

Directly pivots without pretending "lol" was a real response.

Mirror

“lol”

Matching their energy. Ball is now in their court to make actual effort.

Pro tips
  • 1."lol" by itself usually means "I don't know what to say but I'm not uninterested"
  • 2.Don't try to save a conversation someone isn't helping you carry
  • 3.If their last 3 messages were "lol", "haha", and "yeah" — stop texting
  • 4.A person who wants to talk to you will give you more than "lol"

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