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How to Reply to "Hey" Without Being Boring
They sent "hey" or "hi" or "heyyy". It's low effort, but how you respond determines everything.
They sent
“heyyy”
Don't say this
“hey! what's up?”
Mirrors their low effort. Doesn't create momentum. Forgettable.
Say this instead
Playful
“three y's. must be important”
Observational humor. Makes them laugh. Shows you pay attention.
Direct
“what's on your mind”
Skips pleasantries. Gets to the real conversation faster.
Flirty
“was wondering when you'd text me”
Confident. Implies you expected their attention. Charming.
Pro tips
- 1.The number of y's in "heyyy" correlates with interest level (according to internet wisdom)
- 2.Don't match their energy — elevate it slightly
- 3.A response that makes them smile = conversation starter
- 4.If they keep sending just "hey" with no follow-up, they're bored, not interested
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